My Best Work

Which element of your best work do you most want to #amplify this year?

Instead of considering simply doing more work, take the time to consider which elements of your work would most light you up to amplify. What’s holding you back from amplifying it? Is it that obscure little thing no one will care about? Or is it that if they see it, they’ll care too much and call the Imposter or Weirdo Police?

There won’t be a time in the future where it’ll be easier to amplify that part of your work.
p.s. You can’t stand out and fit in at the same time. Charlie Gilkey asked this as the 10th prompt in Tracking Wonder’s Quest2016 writing challenge.

What would most light me up?

That’s the part of this question that jumps out for me. What is it that, when I talk about it, brings out happy-conference-Seonaid? What makes me gesture expansively, drawing people towards me, making me feel whole-hearted and… what is that sensation? Clicked in. Like I have found the part of the universe which fits me perfectly.


It’s structures, systems, and the implications of technology. It’s phase transitions, social construction of reality, knowability, and nearly-inexpressible thoughts. Ideas flickering just at the edge of my comprehension. That’s where I come alive, glow, wave my hands, draw upon my entire life experience, and generally want to hug anybody who lets me speak at length.

It’s this:


(This is from before I spent three months drawing every day. I keep planning to draw it again with my newly developed skills, and fill in the rest of the book, but if I don’t follow my own advice from one of the incomplete pages, it will die in the basket at the foot of my bed.)



The next page, which I have not yet made, is about Local Order. Also, I have markers now. And I promised a group of 130 people that I would finish it. So I guess I’m out of excuses.


How to Weigh What Matters

The #Quest2016 Prompt today is: of these 3 options, which one is most important in my work right now:

  • Quality of life
  • Quality of work
  • Quality of compensation 

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I started out by coming down unequivocally on the side of Quality of Life. It seemed pretty obvious when I literally quit my last career to move to the country and keep bees. (It turns out that I am afraid of bees, at least in batches of 50,000. Also, I picked a most inauspicious time to start my beekeeping practice. Also, I moved somewhere that it’s a bit too cold to keep bees without enormous amounts of effort. Which is all very sad, because I really, really like bees.)

“Life” seemed to be the clear answer. Until I thought about it more, and it wasn’t.


I have entangled a friend and myself in an early-stage-startup, which means that the compensation has been mostly in the form of satisfaction. Even that is mostly around “things I didn’t break today.” We have had (a wee bit of) revenue, which makes some of the other founders around us open their eyes really widely, but it’s still in the two figure range, so at the same time, it’s a bit mock-worthy.

I believe in what we’re working on (which is good, because I’m the one in charge of explaining it to others) and I genuinely enjoy much of the work. Life is good. Work is pretty good, even if this week involved being where I thought I’d be on Tuesday morning at close of day on Friday. Little bit of “argh!” there, but pretty satisfying on the whole.

Compensation… not good.

I’ve had only part time and occasional paid work for most of the last decade, and nearly none in the last three years. I have the indirect compensation that results from being a stay at home mother with a supportive spouse, but I am after something more obviously connected to my actions in the world. More direct.

I have got a handle on the other two. I would go so far as to say I am good at them, not merely that good things have happened to me. I made choices to prioritize them, and they became well-tended and successful.

Yet I have reached the end of what I can do while neglecting the third. The business (tomato) that I have planted in the world cannot become a living, growing, self-sustaining thing, unless I accept that my responsibility to this entity includes a focus on compensation.

And so, much to my surprise, quality of compensation it must be.

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I Shall Stop Flapping My Hands

What can you stop doing in 2016 such that it would allow you to focus on higher payoff activities? Continuing on the #quest2016… Today’s prompt is from John Jantsch, from Duct Tape Marketing.


I’ll admit that “payoff” is not generally top of my mind as I apportion my time. I once wrote an blog post about saving $2 an hour by hanging out the laundry, and how it didn’t make economic sense, but I enjoyed it so much that I was going to keep doing it. I don’t want to stop doing things I like (like podcasting and blogging) just because they are time consuming hobbies rather than the businesses they were supposed to become. (I also just published a workshop on time mastery in which I argued in favour of binge-watching Netflix if it’s part of what keeps you functional, so I may have unconventional views on all of this.)

Housework. Can I stop doing housework? (Other than hanging out the laundry, since I get pleasure from that.)

Yet I realize that it is a more directed question than that.

At our startup, we have largely stopped maintaining our twitter feed, since it was not attracting any audience… pretty much at all. We had one nice conversation with a random follower on May 25 while live-tweeting a video game. Same for the articles we were writing at the beginning of the year: crickets. (We’ve unpublished all of those and stopped writing about geeky things in general terms.) We’re trying to redirect those energies into something that has more obvious benefits to the bottom line. And make no mistake, this time I’m talking about straight up revenue.

This is the ongoing struggle: the sense that we need to do something to make an impact, yet finding that our efforts are not rewarded. All this jumping up and down and flapping of hands is so much… noise. I don’t want to keep contributing to the noise. When we build something, I still want to know how to use those channels to good effect. We’ve redirected a good portion of my time to products and marketing, but the “social media for its own sake” thing… not worth it for the nonce. We’ve given it up.

Hey! That’s a precise and non-theoretical answer! Look what I can do!